Child, Adolescent and Adult Psychiatry


5 Tips for Parents to Understand their Children Better

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Increasing familiarity with the psychology of children is undoubtedly a daunting task. You are expected to be really patient while you’re aiming to understand your child. The following tips can help you to create a friendly relationship with your child and understand him/her much better:

1. Observance Is The Key:

One of the very best methods to understand the psychology of your child is to observe his or her activities.

• This will help you to know the way she or he plays, eats food, draws, sleep, interacts with others, etc
• You will find lots of characteristics that correspond to nature.
• Observe whether your child has the ability to adapt to changes easily or requires time to settle down.
• Not all children have comparable characteristics as they tend to differ in character.
• Remember that your child will certainly have a special personality.

2. Distinguish Your Function – Parents or Friends?

You need to clarify your function as a father and mother and as a friend by setting a few limits by yourself.

• You have to be a good friend at times because it would encourage your children to have an enjoyable interaction with you.
• Do not let your ‘parent-side’ take over while having a friendly conversation with your youngster. Instead, provide a sensible judgment as a good friend would do, without blaming your child for any mistakes he or she may have committed.
• Ensure you don’t spoil your children, however, provide sufficient space to make him understand about your view too.

3. Hang out With Your Child:

You might not have an intimate relationship with him/her when you spend really less time with your children

• You have to invest more time with your child and get yourself associated with his life, understand his pals and such.
• This would make him comfortable in discussing his concerns honestly with you.
• Whether you have a tight work schedule or a vital meeting, set aside a few minutes to remain in touch with your kid and let him know you are there for him.

4. Teach Your Youngster To Be Responsible:

This can be the most difficult thing in your life as parents:

• As a parent, you need to make your children realize his responsibilities at an earlier stage. This will help your child in the future.
• Motivate his actions and commend him for being accountable if your child puts milk in his mug without spilling.
• If your child puts back all the toys in the box after playing, it shows he is responsible.
• Motivate your children, as it would assist them to recognize their duties and be independent.

5. Listen To Your Child:

Children expect their moms and dads to take them seriously and listen to exactly what they are saying.

• Listen to your children without being judgmental.
• Comprehend his viewpoint and reasoning.
• If you do not accept something, discuss with him what your concerns are.
• Support and motivate him.



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